"Signficantly Disabled"

I'm applying to Voc Rehab for financial assistance to get new hearing aids. They sent a letter to me today informing me I am elgible for services because I am "significantly disabled." That little phrase stood out to me above the entire rest of the letter, which is a whole page long.

Really, I've never thought of myself as disabled. How crazy is that? Hearing loss has been with me for as long as I can remember, it's just a part of who I am and how I am built. I've accomplished almost every single goal I've set out to acheive regardless of any hearing limitation. I moved away from home when I was 17 to start college. I went straight from high school to a university. Graduated with two degrees and managed to serve a mission too. I underwent all the training and testing to become a licensed therapist. After licensing and establishing myself in a career, I married and began my family. My life is AMAZING. I couldn't ask for any more.

But then I remember. The hurt feelings. The tears shed. The discouragement. The awkward conversations. The isolation. The anxiety of socializing. The fear in every new situation. The panic when I've missed some important piece of verbal information. The faking it. Being misunderstood. The phone, oh the phone, such dread. The "feel like an idiot" feeling. The meetings. The constant disclosure. The withdrawn behaviors. The anti-social feelings. The hatred of background noise. The worry of adjusting to voices. The concern that technology can't keep up with me. The friends lost. The conversations that could have been.

I guess I am significantly disabled. But I'm going to fight it til the day I die! I am NOT giving up. I am going to continue to live, to risk, to be vulnerable, to serve and to love (just with a whole lot of accomodations)! And bless Voc Rehab for accepting me as a client, I am grateful.